As darkness falls on Clarke Park this Sunday, October 15, it will be illuminated by the candles of those who have lived the worse fear of any parent or expecting parent. Central City, in unity with communities across the globe, is set to mark Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day.

The global Wave of Light event represents the cherished memories of numerous infants gone too soon. Throughout a day, candles in different time zones will shine and fade, creating an unbroken luminary chain symbolizing collective memory and hope.

Such evenings, heavy with mourning, are also filled with unity, compassion, and love. There’s a realization that those undergoing this immense pain aren’t alone; the community comes together in this solemn remembrance, offering deep, collective healing.

Clarke Park will act as a refuge for the bereaved from 6-8 pm. Apart from lighting candles, attendees will get the chance to narrate their stories, pay homage to their lost angels, and seek comfort among those who’ve faced similar heartbreak.

For Jamie Wright, this event holds a deeply personal significance. August was devastating for Jamie and her husband Brandon, who lost their son, Declan James, while nearly 25 weeks pregnant. Struggling through the aftermath, Jamie discovered a heartbreaking reality – many in the community had endured similar pain. Upon realizing that no local events marked the international Wave of Light, she took the initiative to set one up in Central City. With the aid of close friends who’d supported her through her heartbreak, she organized this gathering at Clarke Park.

Jamie’s proactive efforts extend beyond just candle lighting. Luminaries, a thoughtful addition, are available for attendees wishing to add a personal touch. With bags available for pick-up at All the Things Boutique, participants can either decorate them in advance or utilize the materials provided at the venue.

For Jamie, it’s more than just a remembrance event; it’s a way to find a silver lining after the loss of Declan. While she has been open about her experience, she recognizes the silent grief many carry. Through this gathering, she hopes not only to remember Declan but to assure others of the ever-present community support and ensure that no loss goes unnoticed.

Those unable to attend at Clarke Park can still participate by lighting candles at their homes between 7-8 pm. The shared illumination across Central City homes will reflect the unity and empathy of parents who’ve suffered a loss.

Tracing back to its origins, Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day finds its roots in the U.S. from 1988. Its significance spread internationally, echoing the need for acknowledging and supporting those affected by such losses. The fact that 17-22%, if not more, of pregnancies culminate in miscarriage only underscores the importance of days like these.

As Central City lights up in tribute, the community stands testament to collective mourning, intertwined experiences, and the crucial role of community backing for families grappling with such profound losses.