When it comes to marriage, I am a baby in this area, my husband and I have only been married for 5 years. My mom and dad are going on 28 years, my Aunt Kande and Uncle Tom were married for 43 years, and my grandparents Clayton (Speed) and Edie Erickson were married for 69 years, lengths of time that seem unimaginable to survive after the loss of your spouse. After being with that person sometimes…